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The Difference Between Purchasing & Leasing A Car

When shopping for a car, many of my client’s ask me to explain the difference between purchasing and leasing a car. Leasing has become quite popular recently as more and more consumers are looking for the best payment and to stay within their budget for a monthly car payment. Purchasing a car is easy but leasing a car can sound confusing if it is not explained properly.
 
Leasing A Car
I assume for the most part, most consumers know just about everything there is to know about purchasing a car. So, I will explain what it means to lease a car. The easiest way to explain it is to simply think of leasing a car like you think of leasing an apartment.
With an apartment, you lease the space for a year or so and you are responsible for damage. Using the same example, at the end of the lease, you can renew the lease or you can go to another apartment and start the process over again at another apartment complex. With leasing a car, it’s about the same thing. You drive the vehicle for a certain period of time, normally 24 – 36 months depending on the manufacturer. During this time, the driver is responsible for any vehicle damage, insurance, and mileage.
Mileage
Mileage is the number one reason that most consumers stay away from leasing a car. Most manufacturers offer mileage limits of 10,000 – 20,000. The most common lease for non-luxury vehicles is 36-39 months and 12,000 Miles/Year for 3 years.
One common misunderstanding is that you CAN NOT go over mileage. You can go over your mileage per year or per month but as long as your mileage is not over the limit by the time your lease is up, then you will not pay an extra cost.
The reason that there is an extra cost for over mileage is because the original contract is set to have a certain mileage once the vehicle is returned. In most leases, the extra cost is 10 cents per mile that is over the limit of miles. Of course, some brands charge a lot more and over-mileage can become costly. 

Read: “How To Finance A Car With A Previous Repossession”

Pros of Leasing
The best part about leasing a car is that at the end of the lease, you have the option of being done with the lease all together and you turn in your keys. You can also purchase the lease and normally the payment stays around the same.
This works for many consumers as some finance a car every 2-3 years and end up carrying over a negative balance over to the other car over and over. After some time, this becomes expensive as the best way of negative equity is time, money down, or both. With leasing, you also don’t have to worry about major maintenance like tires, brakes, or rotors in most cases. This is perfect for consumers that want to swap out cars every 3 years or so, drive average to slightly above average miles, and not to mention leasing normally gives a lower payment than a purchase.
Of course, leasing is a privilege and is only offered to those who qualify. I would have to say that a lease works favorably with an auto credit score of 640. Your auto score is only obtained from either getting your credit report pulled by a lender or dealership or by purchasing it for a low one time cost. 
 
Purchasing A Car
I will keep this short as this is the most common way of acquiring a car. One thing to keep in mind is that you only own a car once you have the title to the car. Many consumers say that leasing will not work for them simply because they will now “own” the car. I laugh at this every time because if you miss 3-4 payments on a financed auto loan, you will find out who the real owner is.
Most consumers never finish paying off an auto loan and there is nothing wrong with that. Most manufacturers change body styles, equipment, technology, and incentives every year on different models. Because of this, consumers are eager to purchase the latest and greatest. There is nothing wrong with this but the consumer must understand that you can trade in a car anytime but there are times when it makes more sense to do so.
The “sweet spot” to trade in an open auto loan (current auto loan) can vary based on contract terms, miles, interest rate, vehicle condition, and etc. In most cases, most auto loans are in 72 months and if that’s the case, the best time can be around 36-60 months.
Of course, you can always trade out of the car before that but depending on your interest rate, you could be in a situation in which you are “upside down” meaning your car is worth less than what you owe. This can have you putting money down, downsizing in cars, or increasing your monthly payments. With leasing, you never have to worry about negative equity (upside down) unless you jump out of the lease early.

Watch: “How To Lower Your Current Car Payment”

How Credit Affects Purchasing
An auto loan purchase is mainly based on your credit score as well. A credit report with few accounts will have you paying a higher interest rate and a report with too much activity may have you doing the same. The best way to handle this situation, is to simply get an update credit report and see for yourself. One thing that many consumers never consider is refinancing their car later down the line to get a better interest rate or lower payment overall.
You can get a lower rate by taking out an auto loan on a shorter term, but sometimes this will result in a higher payment since the bank is getting their money back faster. You can also get a joint applicant in which both your credit report and your joint applicant’s credit report is taken into consideration. Some manufacturers do offer low interest and first time car buyer programs but there are qualifications to be met as well.
Bottom Line
 I want to make sure all the information is given to my readers to educate them on their options and build confidence. Hopefully, you have a better understanding of the difference between buying and leasing a car. 
 
 

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Marriage & Ministry: 7 Things I've Learned About Being Called to Both

You will often hear people say that your marriage is your number one ministry or that your marriage should be a ministry. So how do you balance both, how do you manage your calling to serve as a leader in the body of Christ and yet be an effective wife or husband, mother or father? I have been doing this for almost 5 years now and these are some of my thoughts.

  1.  You were called before your spouse came -(in most cases) I had a calling before my husband came, marriage has made my calling easier and has enhanced my assignment. Early, we decided that my husband would  focus on building our family financially.  The first 3 years of marriage, while I traveled the nation teaching and preaching,  he would come when he  could,  but our priority was to stabilizing our young family.Both of what we were doing was kingdom work and it was holy unto the lord.  He enhanced my call by allowing me to continue what God had called me to do while he sacrificed. He too was called at that point, but knew we had to work together to make sure both what God had called us to do was manifesting. We both now pastor together, he helps oversee my business and he works full time in a field which is pushing him towards his life dreams.
  2. When your marriage is healthy, your family is healthy and your ministry is healthy-Frustrations in marriage will often show up in ministry, do not be afraid to step down and minister to your spouse and take care of your marriage. Ministry will always be there, but your marriage may not be. When your marriage is healthy, your children will be healthy and what you do as a team will be much easier as you walk in agreement.
  3. All is Holy Unto the Lord- My ministry is not just how well I teach or preach but how will I love my mate, it is how well we love our children, it is how will we manage our finances and care for those who need us. Ministry is not just what happens on the road or on Sunday morning  it is how God is glorified in everything we do. Can people see God through your marriage? Is Jesus Glorified because you and your spouse are together?
  4. You are Your Spouse’s Advocate and Cheerleader– This is your other half,  if ever you begin to follow the lead of others and not your partner it will cause a rift in your marriage. It is your responsibility to fight for your spouse even if they are not in “traditional” ministry. Celebrate them and encourage them to be themselves. Never put other people’s opinions of how you should do ministry or life without considering your spouse.
  5. Our ministries Do Not Have to be the Same-  I have learned that our differences even in our walk with God is what makes us a great couple. Your spouse’s walk does not need to look like yours for you to learn from them. My husband is always teaching me. Always be willing to learn from your spouse.
  6. Discern Seasons- There will be seasons to raise babies which means less ministry time sometimes. There maybe seasons to work on the marriage, their maybe seasons to build the kingdom , their maybe seasons to get your finances together, whatever you do make sure that you always do it together. Let everyone find their part and work together, make no room for the enemy. Realize that seasons are just what they are, seasons. You will not always be there. Push through together and go from there.  Always walk in agreement and it will be well.
  7. Have One Vision-  The number one thing the enemy is after in your life is your agreement. He does not want you to walk in oneness so create a vision for your marriage and assess it early. Make short term goals and long term goals, this helps both of you keep in mind what is important. Make sure the goals and visions cover you guys emotionally, financially and spiritually.

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Is the Proverbs 31 Woman Even Real?

The first few times I read through Proverbs 31 were not intentional. Most of my understanding of her came from others. When I finally decided to intentionally look into this woman – I quickly closed my bible and said, “Umm yea, this woman is not real, I can’t relate.” Why? Well for one, I don’t like to cook or clean, I appreciate my sleep, I don’t know how to sew (takes me 30 minutes just to get the thread in the needle head), and at that time in my life, I was working and in school full-time (do people still farm? – don’t judge me I’m a city girl). I just didn’t have a connection with or understanding of this infamous woman.
Fast forward a few years; I found myself married with a beautiful baby girl. I always had a desire to support my home and serve my husband and children but when it came time to doing it, let’s just say a girl struggled just a little bit in a few areas. My attitude about it all wasn’t always the best either. To make matters worse, my areas of struggle were directly related to my husband’s #1 love language, acts of service.
Ugh! The reality of being a Proverbs 31 woman just didn’t seem realistic or appealing. So what I did is what I always do when I face challenges in life, go to my papa – God!  
After years of skipping and glazing over chapter 31 of the book of Proverbs. I finally decided to not just read but study the chapter with intention and purpose. What I discovered was amazing and within a day’s time, my heart, attitude and perspective of this woman changed. I’m delighted to be able to share my revelation with you on who the Proverbs 31 (P31) woman really is.
1. She’s not a real woman: What? Yea, seriously. I used to think she was a real woman just nameless like the Woman at the Well. However, the P31 woman was a description of a woman, King Lemuel’s mother gave to teach him as a young boy the qualities to look for in a wife. This truth freed me of comparison. Every quality I struggled with didn’t make me less than, now I just saw them as areas I had the opportunity to grow in.
2.  She was actually single: Think about it. King Lemuel’s mother was actually referring to single women since these were qualities she encouraged her son to look for in a future wife. Sooooo…. that means becoming a proverbs 31 woman starts while single not when you say “I do.” (Oops… I sorta missed that memo but I’m getting it together now). I find that many single women view the P31 woman as something they become in the future if/when they get married and have children but nope, this is for the now preparing for later.
 3. She’s a Queen: The description of the P31 woman wasn’t just about any ol’ housewife who wore an apron all day. She was royalty! We’re talking about the wife-to-be of a king, remember? She’s a Queeeen! (She’s Your Queeeeen lyrics from Coming to America just popped in my head. Ha!). She was helping her king run a kingdom. A Queen knows her position, value and authority in her kingdom.
4.  She’s a BOSS:   This point is my favorite! The P31 woman loved God and her family but she was also about her business literally. For whatever reason, she is typically coined as a wife and mother who domestically serves her home and family, but after categorizing each verse her qualities are equally divided.  1/3 of her qualities were about her soul and her relationship with God, another 1/3 focused on her domestic abilities to manage and support her home and family, and the final third showed that she was business-wise and entrepreneurial. This woman didn’t just sit at home cooking and cleaning all day. Nope! She was also using her gifts, talents and expertise to bring in income for her family. However, she was balanced and prioritized while doing it all. I was excited to see the importance of this quality in her life. I’m all about pursuing purpose and using our gifts as women.
As cliché as the Proverbs 31 woman might be to some, she is truly a woman I strive to be. A woman of God who fully understands her worth and value, happily married, with successful relationships with her husband, children and community but yet a wise and a bomb business woman.

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2 Ways You Are Sabotaging Your Business

by Calandra Thompson  & Culus Williams
We are predestined with purpose before we are born into this world. God positioned us for the post that he had already promised. God has given each of us gifts to edify the body of Christ and to glorify his name.
God has given some of us the entrepreneur spirit to start our own business. Not everyone is graced to have this gift. People with this gift seek to be game changers in a particular business field. You were born with the gift to change the game.
1 Peter 4:10 Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms. (NIV)
The gift that God has given you isn’t for you but it’s to serve his people. Through you, other people will be blessed and inspired to continue on this journey we call life. Sometimes we allow our flesh to rise above our God given talents. Here are two ways you might be sabotaging your business.
1. Customer Service
The way your customers are treated can make or break your business. Every employee, including the owner should have some type of customer service training. Customer service is the important factor that sets your business apart from the competitors. Your staff should be friendly, knowledgeable, and available to meet the needs of the customers.
Poor customer service leaves a bad impression on the customer. The customer may even write a bad review online or post a status on their Facebook page that just may go viral. Be careful that you’re treating each client with dignity and respect. Your business will continue to thrive if you’re maintaining good customer relations.
2. Cut it
We have found that many small business owners choose to offer a similar product to their competitors but at a higher cost. “Your price is way too high, you need to cut it!” If you’re creating bars of soap don’t attempt to sell one bar of soap for $25.00. When the consumer could go to Wal-Mart and purchase 8 bars for $6.00. Think about the demographics and the community you are servicing. Then ask yourself, “Would you pay this amount for the product?” If your answer is “NO” then you need to cut the price.
We understand that your business needs to make a profit. As a business owner it’s your job to keep the production cost as low as possible. Then you have to figure out how much the customer will be willing to pay for the service. Then, the product that you’re offering must be valuable to many not just a few.  
We are glad that God has given you the gift of entrepreneurship. We also want you to be successful in the business that God has placed on your heart. We don’t want you to self-sabotage yourself or the business. We want your business to grow and bless the people that God has connected to you on purpose for a purpose. Remember, your business is the way you serve God and his people.

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4 Scriptures to Read While Waiting On God

co-authored by Culus Williams
 
God has released promises into each of our lives. The funny thing is that God releases the promise but he never tells us the process that we will go through to receive the promise. Usually, we start out excited about the promises of God but as we begin to go through the process, we grow weary.
We start to give up and even want to throw in the towel. We become angry with those around us because we feel that they just don’t understand our challenge. We isolate ourselves from fellowship with others because we don’t want them to see the pain in our eyes. Some of us even become angry with God and wonder why he is allowing this happen.
Here are a few scriptures to help you get through your waiting season:
Feel Like Giving Up
Isaiah 41:10 “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
Angry with Loved Ones
James 1:20 “because human anger does not produce righteousness that God desires.
Isolation From Fellowship
Proverbs 18:1 “Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment.”
Angry with God
1 John 5:14 “This is the confidence we have in approaching God; that if we ask anything according to his
will, he hears us.”
 
Adversity tends to come when we least expect it. It’s not easy being challenged by God. It’s not easy not knowing how long you will go through the process.
We encourage you to keep trusting God no matter what it looks like in your life. We often look at things through the natural eye but when you’re being tested it’s best that you look at things through the spiritual eye. Walking by faith and not be sight means that you’re putting your faith in Jesus so you are looking to Jesus no matter what it looks like in the natural. (2 Corinthians 5:7)
Stop trusting man to fix it and trust God that it’s already done. If he released a promise into your life, he is going to fulfill the promise. Don’t give up and don’t give out. When God releases the promise it will be so worth the wait. You will know that only God did it for you. God will get all the glory, honor and praise that he deserves.
 

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20 Signs That Your Relationship is Healthy

One thing that I always say is that marriage is a living organism, if you prune it and water it, it will grow. There are ways to make sure that not only is each person in the relationship is healthy, but to make sure the whole relationship or marriage is healthy. These clues can be used to assess not only romantic relationships but friendships.

  1. Both parties can give 3 reasons how the other person has improved their life.
  2. Both parties feel like they can be themselves in the relationship.
  3. There is no fear when it comes to communication even if the topics are hard.
  4. There are no major secrets that are hidden from one of the parties.
  5. Both parties encourage and support the each other’s dreams.
  6. Both parties propel each other to walk in righteousness and integrity.
  7. Both parties feel understood and loved by the other person.
  8. Both Parties go the extra mile to show the other person they love them.
  9. Both parties serve each other.
  10. Both parties respect and honor each other in front of other people.
  11. Both parties respect the union(if married) keeping the marriage bed pure. The are not involved in sexually deviant behavior (pornography, affairs, deviant sex).
  12. Both Parties do not let the other settle for mediocrity, but pushes the other to be the best.
  13. Both parties create a space for their mate to be themselves.
  14. Both parties enjoy free time away from their partner.
  15. Both parties have clear and healthy boundaries in the relationship.
  16. Both parties enjoying laughing together.
  17. As a couple, you have things you do together that are “your” things.
  18. Both parties easily forgive and do not hold grudges.
  19. Both parties have clarity on the direction of the relationships and expectations.
  20. Both parties are committed to working out any challenges or difficulties that may arise.

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The 7 Words Every Pregnant Wife Needs to Hear from Her Husband

 
Children are a true blessing from the Lord, and bring so much joy to your lives. But, the process by which they come into the World is nothing short of God’s grace and mercy. The journey of pregnancy is different for every expecting mom, and having the support of family and friends means the World to them. We learned so much during our first pregnancy that our second one has gone by so quickly with the amount of fun we’ve been having. One thing I learned in particular was the words my wife needs to hear in order to reassure her during the journey of bringing a tiny human into this World.
 
 
1. I LOVE everything about you.
The one thing you can count on during pregnancy is a lot of change. Change in schedules, change in pace of life, and also change in your wife’s body. It is during this time that she needs to hear you say and be reassured that you love everything about her. I had to train myself to tell my wife everyday that I loved everything about her.
2. You are so BEAUTIFUL to me.
There will be times when your wife just doesn’t feel or look like herself. She will need to hear the word beautiful from your mouth so she can believe it for herself. Pregnancy is very beautiful, but for women it can make them feel the total opposite.
3. I am GRATEFUL for everything you do for our family.
The downfall of pregnancy is you will see your wife make faces, different types of noises, and possibly get called some hurtful names. But, the thing is you can’t feel her pain or the discomfort she is going through. This is when you must remind her how grateful you are for her and all she is doing to bring your children into this world. The spirit of gratitude has a way to make challenging times worth it.
4. How can I HELP you?
You will need to ask her this everyday especially going into the 3rd trimester. She will be very limited in her mobility and the most simple of tasks will now become challenging for her. She needs to know that you are there to help her which speaks LOUDER than any others words you may say.
5. Lets PRAY together.
I’ve learned there are some things I just can’t do for my wife that only God can. When we take time to pray together it really does help us to come back to the central purpose of why we are doing what we do. It helps us to connect with the baby that is brewing in the oven. But, most importantly we put our trust in God to continue to help us in areas we can’t help ourselves. Prayer is a POWERFUL tool that you has the husband need to make sure you’re making time for each day.
6. Do you need a MASSAGE?
This right here is the golden ticket to glory. If I had a penny for every time my wife mentioned how much her feet, back, and every other body part hurt then I would be a rich man. This is your indicator to offer up a massage to her.
7. I will COOK dinner.
Now, if you don’t know how to cook then this is a great time to learn. I guarantee the amount of brownie points you get when you offer to cook dinner and CLEAN up after yourself is ridiculous. Remember she is only pregnant for 9 months, so this season won’t last forever. Challenge yourself out of your norm and ask the Lord for grace to help you do something different. Serving your wife in this way shows a tremendous sign of support, concern, and understanding of what she is going through.
Pregnancy is such an amazing journey and it’s all worth it when your bundle of joy comes into this world. At times your wife will feel alone with carrying your child, but it’s then that you much assist her so she knows that it’s a team effort.  This will make the pregnancy much more enjoyable for her and yourself. You got this!
 

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2 Reasons Why Loving Someone is Hard, But Worth It

The great Nelson Mandela stated in one of his most noteworthy quotes, “No one is born hating another person because of the color of his skin, or his background, or his religion. People must learn to hate, and if they can learn to hate, they can be taught to love, for love comes more naturally to the human heart than its opposite.
Just because a person has the capacity to love doesn’t mean they have been taught how to do it. It’s very sad to see the rise of dysfunction and unhealthiness in relationships. The reason may very well be that many have not been taught how to love, to adequately love a person the way they deserve. Or, it could be simply that love is hard.
Then that brings us to the question, “What does love look like to you?” In what ways do you express love to others, and in what ways do you receive love. For me, love at its highest state, is expressed through relentless commitment.
Considering God is love, the one promise I know I can depend on is that He will never leave me for He is faithfully committed to me because he loves me. Now granted there are many other ways for love to be expressed from giving, physical intimacy, quality time spent, and many more.
And, that I believe is what makes love so challenging.
That we all give and receive love differently. I would like to present 2 reasons why I believe love is hard, but worth it.
1. It reveals your flaws.
No one wants to accept that they have issues. Even in job interviews one of the most popular questions is, “What are your strengths and weaknesses”? It never fails that we make our weaknesses still sound like strengths. Its just a challenge to be honest about our flaws. Well, this is one thing that makes love hard is that it reveals where we are lacking. My wife, who knows me better than anyone, has seen me at my best and my worse. Through the journey of loving her, she has also has seen a lot of my flaws. When you learn to accept someone for their flaws is when love becomes worth it.
2. It requires all of you.
When you came out of your mother’s womb the first thing you did was cry. That cry is because you are kick starting lungs because you need air, but you also are crying for food from your mom. This shows that our first initial reaction to this life is wanting from others. But, as you mature you will learn that love requires you to give of yourself to others. To turn off your wants and put your significant other before yourself. This becomes beautiful when two people both make it their highest goal to put the other before themselves. This is when love becomes a joy versus a burden.
Yes, love is hard, but when you begin to allow your significant other into the places no one else has access to which is your flaws, then the level of trust will cause the love to explode between you.

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3 Keys For Wise Financial Management God's Way

God is looking for husband and wife teams that are wise in kingdom financial management principles. It is important that couples understand the purpose of finances as stewards of God’s resources. Without management, there is no growth in God. God wants to see how well we manage our affairs, how we communicate, how we spend our time, what we do with our money, and how wisely or foolishly we use the resources at our disposal.
Wise management attracts God, while poor management stunts marital growth. God holds back progress until He has management. He allows no increase until He has a husband and wife who can manage the increase. No expansion is made until God has a marital team that is accountable for that expansion. If husbands and wives are faithful with a little, God will entrust them with more (Luke 16:10). To be effective and successful in marriage, husbands and wives must learn to be good managers for collective team movement by utilizing these three key principles:

  1. Communication. Husbands and wives do more than simply keep things running; they add value to everything they have responsibility over. As a result of this, resources will appreciate in value. All married couples should pray together, communicate as a team, set financial goals, and examine themselves periodically. This will help couples to determine if they are effective in handling God’s blessings, spending money wisely, or if they are moving in the direction that God would want them to go (Proverbs 24:3). There is no limit to what the Lord will do for couples financially who surrender themselves and their resources completely to His will and His way.
  1. Tithe. Tithing should be one major facet of a couple’s overall financial plan because it reminds couples that God is the Creator and true owner of everything that we have (Psalm 24:1). Tithing reminds couples to trust in God’s ability and promise to meet their needs daily, while not holding on to possessions too tightly because each spouse is designed to be a mere steward of marital possessions. When couples tithe, they gain contentment and the proper perspective of not allowing possessions and pursuit of prosperity to take precedence over a true, intimate relationship with the Lord. Tithing reminds couples that God is the source and giver of prosperity because He is the one that gives the marital team the ability to produce wealth (Deuteronomy 8:18).
  1. Budget wisely. Budgeting should be the other major facet of a couple’s financial regimen. Every household should operate on a budget or financial plan because it is the basic principle of resource management. A household budget should be no more complex than needed to manage the family’s resources effectively. The budget should consist of a clear plan for saving and spending money, along with managing debt and credit. Investing, leisure, and recreational activities should be factored into a sound budget as well. A working budget, coupled with tithing, represents good management and an honest effort at wise stewardship.

Couples that put God first in their finances will improve their lives and finances. Applying these three principles will help couples build strong kingdom financial management principles that yield financial health, freedom, peace, and joy in their marriages.