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Is He or She the One?

co-authored with Culus Williams

Many singles find themselves feeling helpless in their waiting period. They find themselves wondering, “What can I do to help myself?” I wrote an article last month, encouraging singles to “Position Yourself to be Found” Check out the article here: https://53722c5514.nxcli.net/position-yourself-to-be-found/

Are you in the position, “What happens next?”  You are now a target for a good thing or a counterfeit. The enemy will send the counterfeit to tempt you to settle for someone that God didn’t design for you.  The enemy will always send a representative that fits the description of everything that you’re prayed for in a mate.

The scripture that encouraged me to inspire you is: “1 Chronicles 28:9 The Lord knows what is in everyone’s mind. He understands everything you think. If you go to him for help, you will get an answer.”

Just because someone pursues you (ladies)  or responds (men) – it  doesn’t mean they are the one for you. Pray that this is the one that  God has for you. The man or woman that God has for you will not only talk the talk but they will walk the walk.

Don’t let their words sweep you off your feet or their charming looks deceive you. Go to God in prayer and ask him to reveal it to you.  His word tells us, if we go to him for help, he will answer us.

I’m sure you’ve heard this time and time again but it’s so true – “TRUST GOD!”

Let me share this as well. Just because a man or woman attends church doesn’t mean they are the right one. You still need to pray that this is the person that God has for you. They may go to church but it doesn’t mean they are a doer of God’s word. Even if they approach you, it’s okay to reject their offer. Some people are meant to just be acquaintances or even our friends.

Here’s another helpful insight.  If God’s answer is “NO” keep it moving and don’t look back. If God doesn’t answer – just sit and observe that  persons actions.  If their actions  don’t  line up with the word of God, keep it moving.

One last point, if God gives you a “YES.” Then know that God has also given that person confirmation that you’re the one. God isn’t the author of confusion – he will speak to both of you. Amen!

I desire for you to be connected to the right one. Meditate on 1 Chronicles 28:9 and allow God to direct your path during the pursuing season.

 

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