WHAT DOES TRUSTING GOD WITH YOUR SINGLENESS REALLY LOOK LIKE?

In your single season you will often hear people tell you to “Trust God.” It sounds great and deep down inside you know that you should trust God.

How do you keep trusting God  when every day you arise and you find yourself still single. You also, find that the main ones that are telling you to trust God are dating or happily married.

You keep thinking I’m a Christian, I serve God and even His people. I pray and Lord knows I slay!  Yet, I still find myself single. I desire to date a God- fearing man and to be married one day.

Let’s be honest! For those of us that had sex before marriage and then were transformed to do things God’s way the struggle is real! Sometimes you find your single season being extremely hard. It’s not only a spiritual battle but a physical battle as well. Which leads me to points I want to make….

He’s in Control

I’ve learned that your single season teaches “self-control.” There are things in our lives that we can control but there are some things that we can’t control. I used to be the woman that pursued men for a relationship. Even in the relationship, I did all the pursuing and they did absolutely nothing.

During my single season I learned an important lesson… That it’s not my role to pursue, that’s the man’s role. It’s my role to simply respond. I had to learn self-control and I had to learn how to allow God to be in control of my life.

Trusting God isn’t just about the single season that you’re in, it’s more about trusting God with your entire life.

What are some areas in your life that you struggle with self-control? It’s not always sex. It can be anger, lying, cheating, gossiping, etc.

Trust the Plan

I remember wondering if God even had marriage in store for my life. Interestingly enough, God never spoke and told me that one day I would be married. Each day I had to walk by faith and not by sight.

If God reveals every plan to us, then there would be no need for faith. Even if God doesn’t reveal the plan, you still have to trust the plan. God knows exactly what we need and when we shall receive it. Don’t doubt what God can do for you. To doubt God, means that you don’t trust Him completely. Trust in His word and know that He gives good gifts to His children.

Are you in a spiritual place of completely trusting God?

Yes, you may get tired of hearing people to tell you to trust God. You must desire that in your heart more than you desire a mate. Trust that your single season is a preparation time. He’s preparing you, as He is preparing him. Trust that in this season that God hasn’t denied you a mate, it’s just delayed until due season.  Keep trusting God and know that the best is yet to come!